Hookups happen in all different ways with different people. Whether you end up sharing a hot night with a local lady you met online or a hot married woman you just had to have, you’ll find yourself in diverse situations. Unlike regular dating where you might be searching for a relationship, if you’re only looking to hook up, you’re going to see a lot of different women. Therefore, you need to be prepared for the etiquette of hooking up with a married woman. Whether you’re planning on seeing her once or more than that, there are certain moves that no man should ever make. There are the three deadly sins of hooking up with married women.
Asking about Her Marriage
“You’ll get a tight slap if you ask anything about her married life”
This is the number one faux pas that will get you kicked out of her bedroom faster than you can even grab your shirt. A woman having an affair doesn’t want to talk about her marriage, unless she brings it up. If she’s cheating, she might feel guilt over it. Obviously this is a very unsexy emotion, so you want to keep the focus on the lighthearted, hot fun you’re having with her. In fact, if she does want to talk about her marriage or her personal problems, you might be starting down a road you don’t want. If you’re looking for a simple, uncomplicated hookup, don’t start becoming a married woman’s confidant. Keep the conversation far away from her marriage or anything relating to her personal life, and it’ll be better for everyone involved.
Dirty Talk about Promiscuity (Unless She Agrees)
“Dirty talks during sex can be kinky only if she agrees to it”
Dirty talk in bed can be hot. However, many women have issues with derogatory language such as “slut” or other name calling. While sometimes this can be a consensual bedroom activity, you should never just throw it out there during a hookup. Married women are extra sensitive to this sometimes, because they might feel bad about cheating on their husband. Therefore, if you start calling her names when you’re having sexy times, it’s going to be traumatic for both of you. Keep your language clean, and if you like to dirty talk during sex, ask her first. She might be completely into it since it’s a common kink, but you should know beforehand where she stands on the topic.
Trying to Be Her Friend
It’s fine to be friendly with a hookup and even see the same woman more than once. However, you don’t want to become a married woman’s buddy, because that also means you become her potential confidant by default. When you’re sleeping with another man’s wife, the last thing you want to do is put yourself in the crossfire. You may not have any ethical dilemmas about engaging in an extramarital affair if it’s just for casual sex, but what you should worry about is causing undue drama for yourself. If a woman is cheating on her spouse and he finds out, there’s going to inevitably be a massive fallout. The last thing you want is have a simple hookup blow up in your face.