“Online dating is in demand now-a-days, so be very careful while making your profile”
If you thought dating competition was fierce in the real world, you’re in for a real surprise if you decide to try it out online. For every woman there’s going to be a ton of guys, which means that you need to bring you’re a game in order to be able to make a good impression. If you’re new to online dating you probably won’t be familiar with what works and what doesn’t, but don’t worry-there are four really easy, really effective ways you can stand out from every other guy online.
Do More than the Bare Minimum
Most online dating websites-even the ones dedicated to helping people find partners interested in sex only-offer a function that’s basically the bare minimum when it comes to telling ladies you’re interested. These commonly come in the form of either “show interest,” “nudge,” or “wink” buttons. Yes, these are meant to let a woman know you think she’s attractive and that you’d be interested in hooking up with her, but they’re not the most flattering methods of doing so. If you really want to express interested-and impress the ladies-you need to do way more than the bare minimum. On top of using the site’s methods of showing interest, make sure to use your own. Leave a comment on her profile or send her a private message. That way you’re showing her that you think she might be worth the effort.
Waiting Before You Get Personal
“Don’t be so quick to ask a personal question – It will make you look desperate”
Even if you’re meeting women on a website meant to promote casual sex, there’s a right time and a wrong time to start asking personal questions. You should at least wait until you’ve exchanged a few private messages and agreed to a voice chat or phone call. Asking for all her intimate details immediately after she responds to your message is just going to make you look desperate or creepy (or both).
Have a Recent Picture
Maybe you’ve packed on a few pounds the last couple of years or maybe you don’t have a recent photo, so you just decided to use one from three years ago. No harm done, right? You might think you don’t look any different but trust us, the ladies will be able to tell the picture’s old once they see you through webcam or in person. And if they figure out you deceived them that way, they won’t be happy. Always use a recent photo on your dating website profile so the ladies don’t feel like they’ve been mislead.
You might think it makes you seem confident to wait a while before you respond to any woman’s message, but in truth it makes you seem like a douche. Don’t make them wait for it. If you’re looking for a woman to date or hook up with, you need to let her know ASAP. Remember how fierce the competition is on these websites. Making women wait before you get around to replying to them is just giving other guys like you an opportunity to move in, make an impression, and score a date that could have been yours.