Crafting a Good First Message for a Potential Hook-up

In this era of online dating and hook-ups, there are too many potential dates for you to choose from. Women from all around the world in different shapes and sizes, with different personalities and hobbies, as well as different things they’re looking for in a potential partner. If you are lucky enough to find someone you’re interested in, you find yourself facing another hurdle. How should you craft a good message to respond to her profile page? How should you write a message that will make her interested in you, and not lump your message in with the rest of the other sleazy ones she receives? We have a few tips for you, and hopefully she’ll consider reading your message instead of cataloguing it as spam mail.

Read Their Entire Profile and Understand It

“Explore her profile and message her accordingly”

The first thing you should do is to read her entire profile. Yes, the whole thing all the way to the bottom. Think of it as an exam, the more you study her, the higher the chances of you succeeding in asking her out. If you bother to do this, that already makes you better than the hordes of anonymous faces trying to get with her. Trust us, she’ll appreciate it, and so will you when she replies to your messages.

Reading her profile gives you a chance to see if you are compatible even before you send the first message. For instance, if your kinks are incompatible, don’t waste your time sending her a message. If the two of you live in different states, you can forget it as well. You are not going to travel across the U.S for a hook-up.

Personalize Your Message to Her Profile

“Keep her interests and hobbies in mind while messaging her”

If you have read her entire profile and digested it, you should have no problem with this step. You should send a message that is specifically aimed at your potential partner’s interests and hobbies. If you do, you’re already better than half the people on the dating site who merely skim over their profiles and give generic “Hey Sexy” messages. You want to make them interested in you and your message. You want a casual hook-up, but putting in all this effort makes your potential hook-up more interested in replying to your message as compared to the others. With a little luck, you may end up hooking up with her more than once.

Don’t Tell Him or Her That They Look Good

This may seem strange to some of you. After all, why would you not compliment someone on their looks? Guess what, if you had thought of complimenting their looks, so will dozens of other people on the Internet. Chances are they’ll have gotten many messages about how hot they look, and most people will pair it with a lewd request. You are not going to differentiate yourself like this. Unless the person in question is really unattractive, complimenting their looks is not going work. You should save the compliments until you meet them in person.


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