“Get out of the cuddled-zone and get some action”
It happens to every guy at one point or another: you’re in bed with a sexy, beautiful woman and instead of sex, she wants to cuddle. Meanwhile you’re rocking a boner that just won’t go away. In these cases it’s usually up to the guy to think gross thoughts (think grandma in the shower) until his arousal dies and everything’s back to normal. But what if there were a way to steer things back to the way you want it? If you could figure out how to get her all hot and bothered you could make sure that there’s far less cuddling going on than there is fantastic sex.
Don’t Be a Passive Cuddler
If all you do when you’re cuddling in bedis hold her, you’re doing it wrong-particularly if you’re interested in lighting her fire. What you need to do if you want things to get friskier is be an active cuddler. This means kissing, nuzzling, and rubbing your hands over her body (but don’t grope her, not yet. That’s for later). Even if you take it slow when you’re doing these things, you’re probably getting her more and more turned on which is exactly what you want. So the next time you’re put in the cuddle zone, remember to be an active participant. In no time you’ll be right where you want to be.
Talk to Her
When you’re being an active cuddler, you should also talk to her. This doesn’t mean you need to carry on an active conversation about your day was. It means you need to talk to her about why you love holding her, kissing her, and touching her. Don’t get too dirty right up front, but you definitely need to be a little naughty when you’re doing this in order to set the mood. Whispering all your sexy thoughts into her ear while you’re kissing her neck can get her all riled up and wanting to do the same. From there it’s a very short trip back to sexy-time land.
Switch up Positions
“Indulge in different cuddle positions and steer things back”
Most people assume there are only two good cuddle positions-front to front or spooning. The fact of the matter is that there are lots of other good cuddle positions to choose from, especially if you’re hoping things will get steamy after a bit. Why not try with her on top of you or you on top of her? You can also cuddle sitting up, which can lead to some interesting body to body contact. Mix in these new cuddle positions with some naughty talk and a make-out session and you should be well on you way to getting some action.
Make it Obvious
There’s one very obvious difference between men and womenand when you’re feeling horny that difference is very evident. So if you’d like to let her know just how much you want her but you don’t want to be too direct, you can always opt to show her another way. If you’re spooning her, just press a little closer. She’ll feel your erection and know what you want, and if you’ve been sweet-talking her between long kissing sessions you’ll be more inclined to want it too.