“Gifting her a sex toy makes her feel that you’re a passionate lover”
If you’re meeting up with a woman just as a precursor to what you’re hoping will be a night of fantastic sex, you’ve probably wondered if you should be buying her a gift. The rules of dating aren’t always clear on this-sometimes it’s a good idea to get your date a little something and sometimes it’s not. And when you’re date is actually more of a hookup it becomes even more confusing. Given as the entire reason you’re getting together with her is for sex you might think that maybe a sexy gift is in order, but before you decide to buy you really need to stop and consider what would make that a good idea and what would make it a terrible one.
Bad: She Thinks Sex is All You Want
There’s really only one thing a woman is going to think if you give her a dildo or vibrator, and that’s that you’re looking to get laid. Being as that’s actually the case, it’s not a bad thing, but some women may not appreciate that kind of directness. How she’s going to react depends on entirely on what kind of woman she is. If she’s pretty easy-going and just as eager to get naked and naughty as you are, she’ll probably enjoy the gift (and want to use it later on). On the other hand, if she’s a bit uptight and already feeling nervous, she might feel like you’re pressuring her to put out.
Good: It Lets Her Know You’re Generous
Giving her a sex toy or some sexy lingerie at the beginning of your pre-hookup date is a good way to let her know that you’re all about being generous when it comes to sex. After all, sex toysare mostly for her benefit because they bring her pleasure (lingerie is more for your benefit, so you might want to consider adding a little something for her to the mix). A generous lover is pretty much what every woman wants, so there’s nothing wrong with her thinking that way about you. If she’s aware that you enjoy giving pleasure she’ll also be more inclined to want to do the same with you. It’ll be a win-win situation no matter how you look at it.
Bad: She Likes It More Than You
“Don’t let the sex toy replace you”
This is a fear that pretty much every guy has had when in a sexual relationship: what if she starts liking her sex toys more than she likes you? Most men can’t compete with the battery powered awesomeness of silicon sex toys, which means that that fear is legit. So if you’ve decided to buy her a toy, don’t go too overboard and buy her the top-of-the-line version that’s guaranteed to deliver mind-blowing orgasms. You want her focused on you all night, not on the toy you bought her.
Good: It Means More Fun for You Both
The fact of the matter is that sex toys make sex more fun not only for the woman, but for the man as well. They’re called toys for a reason, after all. If you really want to make things exciting, you might consider buying a toy for yourself, as well.