“You are just here for a hook-up, so taking her to a candle-night dinner will be a bad idea”
Getting together with a woman for casual sex isn’t usually all about the sex. It would be weird to just get together with a woman you don’t know and then hop right into bed with her. This is why even hookups usually start out with some kind of date first. This gives you an opportunity to get to know her a little bit before you get naked in front of her. It doesn’t mean you’re trying to romance her; it just means that you’re attempting to make her less of a stranger before you commit to doing the deed. Because it’s not meant to be a serious date you might think you can just take her anywhere, but that’s not the case. Even a pre-hookup date should be planned a little bit, and if you want to seal the deal you need to make sure it’s a good plan.
Sure, maybe the wings they serve there are great and the music is amazing. Maybe it’s even not half bad as a club. But taking your date here because you think it will get her in the mood is a very, very bad idea. Even on the off chance that she doesn’t get offended she’s probably going to be less than impressed that you want to see other naked women before you see her naked. Whatever reasoning led you to think that this was a good idea was not good reasoning. Strip clubsare definitely not a good choice for a pre-hookup date.
“You won’t be to concentrate on her in a crowded bar”
Hitting the bars on a Friday night before a long weekend might be fun to do with your buds, but it’s definitely not a good idea when you’re seeing a woman that you want to get naughty with. Crowded, noisy bars give you almost zero opportunity to get to know each other, which is kind of the whole point of this date. You’ll have no privacy and it’ll be tough to carry on a conversation. On top of that, you’ll probably both be tempted to drink. While booze is a great icebreaker, drinking too much isn’t only going to influence how you act. It might actually have an impact on how your dick responds later on when you’re ready to seal the deal.
Some Place Romantic
This isn’t a date where you’re trying to woo her into seeing you long-term. This is a date where you learn a little bit about her before you hop into bed with her. It’s to break the ice and nothing more, which is why it’s a bad idea to take her some place romantic. If you take her to an upscale restaurant complete with a violinist and candle-lit dcor, it’s going to make it seem like you’re trying to get her to fall in love with her. And if she’s only out for your dick, that’s not going to go over very well. It’s understandable if you want to show her a good time, but steer clear of any place that’s considered to be romantic. Otherwise you’ll run the risk of scaring her off.