“This is a delicate situation and you have to handle it very carefully”
Hooking up with women is awesome, no matter if they’re tall or short, thin or thick, or what have you. However, sometimes you just see a woman that you’d rather hook up with than anyone else. Sometimes you might see a woman’s friend and want to hook up with the friend more than the original woman. Is this a bad thing? Well, it all really depends on the situation, but if you find that you’d rather hook up with her friend than her, there are a few things you need to keep in mind. It’s not a situation where you can just jump in without a care. It can be a bit delicate, and you need to be able to handle it properly so you don’t wind up causing a mess. Here’s what you need to know if you realize you’d rather hook up with her friend than with her:
Is This Something You Should Try?
You might not think that you should go for her hotter friend, especially if you met up to hook up with her specifically. However, there’s no reason why you should settle for second best, so to speak. You can definitely hook up with her hotter friend and you don’t even need to feel bad about it. If it’s just hooking up, there’s no reason why you should try to hook up with the women you are most attracted to. It may take a little bit of extra effort, especially if she’s got a very strong friendship, but you can still make it happen. Don’t do this if you think that either of them are super dramatic, though. You don’t want to wind up causing more trouble than a hookup is worth.
Being Subtle about It
“Keep things private otherwise she will make a scene”
It’s important to try and be subtle about it if you’re going to hook up with her friend instead of her. You don’t want to outright tell her that you’re more interested in her friend. You want to try and get the friend’s attention and go out with her instead, and that can take some effort on your part. You just need to work on being subtle, because otherwise you could wind up causing quite a bit of unnecessary drama, which is definitely not something you want to deal with. Don’t start making out right in front of the friend, in other words. It won’t go over well by any means.
Knowing When You May Be Crossing a Line
Sometimes it’s not a good idea to try and hook up with her friend. If you met up specifically to hook up with her, then you might not want to try and hook up with her friend. You’ll have to try and think of a way to bail on the original woman you were supposed to meet, which is not exactly easy to do. If they seem quite close, then you probably should stay away from this type of scenario. It’s often more trouble than it’s worth, so don’t get in the middle of something awkward.