“Act like a playboy”
It’s every dude’s dream: sleeping with more than one woman without having any mess or fuss. Unfortunately, making the dream become reality is going to be easier said than done-especially if you’re already involved in a committed relationship. Don’t despair, though. There are ways you can juggle a relationship and a number of hookup partners, but you’re going to have to be creative and very careful. Otherwise you’re not only going to risk losing your girlfriend but getting all your women on the side pissed off at you as well.
One of the best ways to look for a little on-the-side action is to hit up online dating websites. In particular, you’re going to want to check out the websites that are focused on adults find no strings attached sexual relationships. Trying to set up this kind of relationship without the Internet means you’ll probably be approaching women that are in the social circles of both you and your girlfriend, which is basically a recipe for disaster. By taking advantage of online hookup websites you’re basically going to be meeting women who are complete strangers, which means the risk of you being discovered by your partner is going to be low. The other great thing about these kinds of websites is that you’ll have access to way more ladies than you would by trying to find someone interested in hooking up offline.
Don’t Alter Your Schedule Drastically
“Sudden change in your schedule can put you in danger”
If you’ve kept the same schedule for years but suddenly change it drastically in order to accommodate your hookups, your girlfriend is going to realize something fishy is going on. Suddenly having after work, late night meetings isn’t going to seem natural, which means you need to come up with excuses that are believable and convenient. Make excuses like after-hours doctor appointments (which some clinics do allow) or time spent out with your friends. Make sure said friends are in on the story, though-nothing’s going to blow your cover more than a bud who says he doesn’t know where you are when you told her you’d be hanging over at his place. It’s probably also going to be tempting to schedule weekend hookups with the other ladies in your life by saying it’s a camping trip or business trip. Don’t do it. Refrain from meeting up with other women during the weekend unless your partner’s busy, too.
Keep Casual Sex Casual
Nothing’s going to mess up your sweet arrangement more than casual sex becoming something more than casual. It’s easy for both you and the women to say that you just want sex, but if you spend too much time in each other’s company, it’s easy for affection to start to grow. If you develop feelings for one of your women on the side-or they develop feelings for you-the entire situation is likely to become a train wreck in very short order. This is why you need to emphasize to everyone involved on the side that you’re only looking for something short-term and casual with absolutely no strings attached. By being up front you’re making sure they won’t misunderstand you and you’re also making it clear that if things start to get too serious that you’re liable to bail.