When you’re taking a woman out just because you want to get her into the sack later, you can’t really treat it like a traditional date. This means that you’re not really going to be able to talk about a lot of the things you’d talk about with a woman you were seriously interested in dating. For this reasons things can get kind of awkward, which in turn can be a buzz-kill. If you want to be able to make it through the date without ruining the mood so that she’s still hot for you at the end, you need to know what topics are safe to discuss.
Why You’re Okay With Hooking Up
“Asking each other’s preference is a good idea”
It’s not like you’re both unfamiliar with this concept, being as you’re about to do it with each other. Why not get the conversation rolling by talking about why you each prefer this to conventional dating? This might offer some additional insight into her as a person and might also make her even sexier in your eyes. A girl who doesn’t want commitment? How hot is that? You can learn about how she feels about relationships in general and share your opinions on that subject, too. It’s a good way to bond without getting too close.
Movies, Books, Shows, Music, etc. That You Like
“Talk about her favorite movie, book or kind of music she likes”
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with discussing the kinds of things in popular media that you find interesting. In fact, it’s an easy way to get a lengthy and entertaining discussion started, which means that you won’t have to start searching around for topics later when the awkward silence starts. You might not like all the same things but it’s still fun to talk about them all. This is also a good way to get an idea of what she’s like personality-wise. Yes, you’re only interested in her body and all the things he can do with it, but learning a bit about her makes her less of a stranger in the long run.
What You Love About Sex
There’s no better way to get each other in the mood for some steamy action later on than by talking about all the things you love about sex. You can tell her the kinds of things you love to do AND the things you love to have done to you and she can do the same. This is a great way of building the sexual tension between you both until it reaches the boiling point. By the time you’re ready to head back to your place (or hers), you won’t be able to keep your hands off of each other.
What You Do For a Living
This is one of the tried and true conversation topics that’s great to bring up if you feel like your conversation is headed into a rut. It’s another way of learning about each other but it’s also not too personal, which means you won’t feel like you’re actually out on a real, romantic-type of date. Of course, there’ll be an issue if she tells you that she doesn’t want to talk about it, but you can fill that gap by telling her all about what you do, why you like it, and how you got into that line of work.