So you’ve registered on a no strings attached dating website in hopes of scoring some hookups with some very willing, very sexy women. You’ve probably already sent out some messages and received some from the ladies who think you’re attractive. You may have arranged or even gone out on dates with some of them. This is where things can get confusing, particularly if you’re seeing more than one woman at a time. You may think that they want the same thing you do, which is sex without attachment. But what if one seems really interested in your financial situation and seems keen on a different kind of arrangement? Unless you want to become a sugar daddy, you need to recognize the signs that she’s a sugar baby.
She’s Nosy About Your Finances
She will focus on your money more than you”
It’s not really normal to be out on a date and start chatting about each other’s financial situations. In fact, most people would consider that to be way too nosy. So if you’ve gone out a couple times and suddenly she seems very interested in how much money you make, it’s time to take notice. This may be genuine curiosity. However, she might also have an ulterior motive as well. If she seems impressed by your threads, the car you drive, and the things you can afford, she’s probably considering whether or not you’d make her a great sugar daddy. Unless you’re okay with forking over hundreds to thousands of dollars every month just to get laid occasionally, you’re going to want to consider bailing on her if she really is a sugar baby.
She Emphasizes that She Wants to Be Spoiled
“She will demand for a better lifestyle and expect expensive gifts from you”
Not all sugar babies want to be pampered. Some want the financial arrangement to take care of things like bills or tuition. However, some of them are strictly about living as lavish a lifestyle as they possibly can and they want a man who’s going to be able to give them that. If she constantly emphasizes how she thinks it’s a man’s job to spoil the woman and how much she enjoys being pampered, she’s throwing some very unsubtle hints in your direction. It’s up to you whether you want to keep stringing her along or whether you want to focus on a woman who’s less about the money and more about having fun, carefree sex.
She Asks Whether You’d Consider an Arrangement
Sometimes the signs that she’s an aspiring sugar baby aren’t going to be that subtle. Still, unless you know what you’re looking for you might not expect it. If you’re on a date with a woman and she asks you if you’d ever consider an arrangement where you gave a woman a monthly sum of money in exchange for companionship, it could be one of two things. 1) She could be genuinely curious for the sake of conversation or 2) She thinks you’d make a good sugar daddy and she’s sounding you out for that reason. If you’re not sure which of the two applies to her, you’re probably going to have to ask. If it turns out that she’s seeking that kind of arrangement, it’s on you to decide whether you want to get into that or not.