“Make it easy for women to know you”
Internet dating is no longer for the super desperate or the really weird. It’s become mainstream and is just as widely accepted as more conventional methods of dating are. And it’s not just traditional dating that people go online for anymore-you can search for a sugar baby, a wife, swinging partners, or even ladies that are interested in some no strings attached sex. If it’s the latter you’re interested in finding (and let’s be honest, what guy wouldn’t be?) you’re going to have to bring you’re A game when it’s time to fill out your profile because competition is going to be fierce. For every woman on a casual sex dating site there’s going to be a bunch of men, which means you need to stand out above the others to have any kind of success.
Sex is mostly a visual and physical thing. This means that looks DO matter. Most every dating website will give you the opportunity to list what kind of physical attributes apply to you, letting you pick from options like hair color, eye color, and your build. The latter is usually what makes or break interest from the ladies. If a woman wants a dude that’s athletic, she’s going to look for that in his profile description. Other ladies might be okay with “average” or “has a few extra pounds.” You might be tempted to lie here about your body type, but keep in mind that the entire reason you’re on this website is to find ladies that want to hook up with you, which means that eventually they’re going to see you in person. Unless you want her to think you’re a liar and a creep and bail on the date, you should probably be honest about every part of your appearance. Yes, you’ll include a picture on your profile, but pictures can only show so much.
What You’re Looking For
“Mention what kind of relation you are seeking”
Just because it’s a no strings attached dating website doesn’t mean that every woman on that website will settle for casual sex. Some of them will be on the lookout for a hookup that could possibly turn into something more. Unless that’s something you’d be into, you need to state in your profile what you’re interested in. If it’s just NSA sex one time only, you need to say it. If it’s repeated NSA sex, say that. If you’re open to maybe building a relationship out of a hookup, include that in your profile. This will help to filter the ladies who decide to reach out to you.
Again, you might be tempted to lie when it comes to stating how old you are. Don’t do it. Remember that eventually you’ll be meeting up with one of these ladies and if you said you were 30 when you’re really 45, she’s going to notice right away and she won’t be happy that you lied. In most cases age isn’t really going to matter (unless you’re pushing 60), so don’t sweat it. A lot of the time the ladies dig older men, so it’ll work out for you anyway. Don’t lie and say you’re 35 when you’re 21, either-your maturity in how you behave around her will totally give you away.