“Video chatting helps you to strike conversation with more than one woman”
There’s a lot to love about online dating websites. For starters, they give you access to thousands of women who are looking for guys just like you. They make the process of meeting women much faster and easier than if you’d gone out and tried to meet them through more conventional ways. They also allow you to strike up conversations with more than one woman. For all these awesome things, however, there is one big drawback with doing any kind of dating online: you don’t get to meet the ladies in person. That doesn’t mean you can’t see them face to face or talk to them, though-it’s easy enough to start video chatting. But talking to her through video isn’t always going to be aces, and before you decide to start up a video call with her you need to understand the pros and cons.
Con: Your Connection Affects Video Quality
So you’ve got a webcam and so does she. You’re both on Skype. Everything should be good to go, right? Unfortunately, this isn’t always the case. Video quality through Face Time or Skype is going to depend largely on the strength of your Internet connection. If your connection is usually mediocre at best, you’re going to get super grainy, distorted, or laggy video calls. When this happens it can be really frustrating, particularly if you were interested in seeing her in person. If there are things you can do to fix your connection (stopping any uploads/downloads or background programs, plugging directly into your modem or router) you should probably do it. If there isn’t, you may just have to resign yourself to boring old voice calls until you can meet up in person.
Pro: You Get a Look at How She Behaves
“Video chat helps you to observer her behaviour”
One of the main reasons people who date online use video calls so much is that it gives you a look at how she behaves when confronted with you. It might not seem like a big thing until you consider the fact that maybe she’s really shy when she’s face to face with you. You’d never have known that if you hadn’t done a video call, or at lease you wouldn’t have known it until you met up with her in person. Video calls also let you see her expressions, the way she smiles, the way she talks, and lets you see how physically attractive she is. Doing a video call is much, much better than just relying on her profile pictures to gauge how hot and fun she might be.
Con: She Sees You
Video calls are a two-way street, which means she gets to see you. Maybe you’re just an average kind of guy and it turns out that she’s super sexy. This means you’re going to spend the majority of the chat feeling self-conscious and that she’s judging you.
Pro: Video Sex
Maybe after your first couple of video calls you both find each other really attractive. This means you can easily take it to the next step: video call sex. If you thought seeing her face was amazing, just wait until you get to see her smoking hot body while she gives you a striptease.